LONELINESS IS AN EPIDEMIC IN MODERN AGE-TRY TO AVOID IT BY INTERACTING FELLOW HUMANS

LONELINESS IS AN EPIDEMIC IN MODERN AGE-TRY TO AVOID IT BY INTERACTING FELLOW HUMANS 

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Loneliness is a problem now a days through out the world,joint families or living in group sharing food,shelter,economy and clothing together is rarely seen now a days,even in cultural l symbiotic society of India nuclear family is now mostly seen,person live with own wife and children and here too most elite educated youth leabe alone,even no marriage no children as seen in japan ,even government pay persons for sex or to give birth to children. So loneliness is a little discussed concept in today's self-obsessed climate, where it is seen as a negative embarrassing condition. It is unique for every individual, and as such, it is difficult to define. There are other closely related concepts, for example, aloneness and solitude, that further complicate an already complex issue.

                 A considerable number of older people usually suffer from loneliness and social isolation,but now youngers doing mostly digital and hitech work from their office or home are mostly alone except interacting people in office which is usually an official interaction are too alone,under pressure of hugh work to earn hugh money and reputation,they donot marry,donot make social friends and even so they donot get time to interact with these friends or even their family or parents so are mostly alone. Such loneliness negatively affects their health particularly mental and social health and well-being Loneliness is an epidemic in modern society]. Increasing longevity not only adds to an ageing population feeling lonely but also introduces specific health issues, such as increasing cardiovascular diseases and cancer.Loneliness also has various causes and effects that can be one and the same, and so it can be confused with similar but different conditions, for example, depression and self-esteem. But, at the end of the day, if the word loneliness is mentioned in conversation, everybody will understand what it means to them, and how distressing an ordeal it can be.

             Everyone is lonely to some degree, no matter how much they pretend they are not: it is part of being human. Nursing literature looks at loneliness from a rather basic, superficial perspective, when discussing whether such a traumatic state of being can be solved, but this is not a solution as such. It is such an innate part of the human psyche, that it cannot be solved like a puzzle.

                it can only be alleviated and made less painful. This can only be achieved by increasing humankind's awareness of this distressing condition that everyone has to endure in some way, shape or form, some time during their lives, about which there is nothing to be embarrassed. If non-lonely individuals could spare a smile or a word for people who might be perceived as being lonely, even if in doing so they selfishly think 'there but for the grace of God go I', such a small gesture might just make their day a little less of an ordeal.

                it is now advised that people should interact,should ideally meet persons in different cultural functions of festivals atleast or  organising get togethers on birth day of themselves,spouse or children or wedding anniversary or occassion of marriage or death,mixing with fellow other humans is must to ventilate out own feelings,to be reactive to other's feeling and sentiments,to work together or help each other or  solve social problems by taking people together makes a person more assertive,self confident and reliant and try to dispose of depression,fear,anxiety,excitement,sorrow,tension from one mind and thus improve social and mental health of person.